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Summary:

Are you concerned your children might be looking at porn on the computer?  Maybe you are a concerned wife who is wondering what your husband looks at on the computer when you aren’t around.  Or maybe yet you’re an employer or teacher and want to make sure that employees or students aren’t looking at illicit images on the computer.

The Porn Detection Stick is advanced computer forensic software on a portable USB device that will allow you to quickly and easily scan the contents of your PC and find out if there are pornographic images on it, even if the images have been deleted.

Scanning your PC is simple – just insert the Porn Stick into your PC.  Then double-click the Porn Stick icon that pops up, and click “Scan.”  The device will start scanning every single image on your computer and flags suspicious images, and creates a report that allows you to review the flagged images, and permanently delete them.

So whether you think that someone might be intentionally viewing pornography on your computer, or if you just want to make sure that your computer wasn’t unknowingly or accidentily exposed to illicit material, the Porn Detection Stick will help you find the evidence you need.

Pros:

Fast Recovery – Scan an entire 200GB hard drive in <30 minutes
Recover Deleted Images – Finds traces of images even after they’ve been deleted!
Advanced Forensic Detection Method – Same device used by cyber investigators
Portable – Easily take with you and scan multiple PCs
Image Blur – Blurs images so you don’t have to see the images (when enabled)
Scan Portable Media Devices Too – Scan thumb drives and USB drives also

Cons:

Cannot find videos

Compatibility:

The Porn Stick works on PC’s running Windows XP, Windows Vista, and Windows 7

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The couple walks into my office. She is obviously hurt and angry. He has the look of angry confusion. She blurts out her discovery that he uses pornography. She feels as though he’s been cheating on her. She feels betrayed. She finds the whole thing repulsive. How could he do this to her?

He is ashamed on one level. On another level, it seems the most natural thing in the world. He’s always looked at bodies. He has always had fantasies, and he can now see pictures and films just like them on the internet. His friends do it. The guys in the locker room talk about it. What’s so wrong with it?

This situation occurs with surprising frequency. Couples are angry and confused about what to do with it all and about what it really means. They feel terribly hurt and misunderstood. They’d like some answers instead of just blaming each other. So, here’s some things to consider.

1. Any problem for a couple is a “team” problem. If one person hurts, the “team” has a problem. If one person is angry, then the “team” has a problem to resolve. It’s not a competition where one wins and the other loses. It is about the “team” winning as a whole.

The pornagraphy issue is the same. The couple needs to find a way that meets the needs of both people, so that the team wins.

2. Men and women have very different training and understanding of sexuality. Women are raised to focus much more on the relational aspects, while men grew up learning to focus on the visual and physical experience, often to the exclusion of relationship.

In a culture that makes use of women’s bodies to advertise and sell just about everything, women easily come to believe that they are only valued for their physical attractiveness. Many already feel ashamed of their bodies, believing they’re supposed to be shaped like teenage boys. In their most intimate and important relationship they so desire to be loved and accepted for who they are, not what they look like. It comes as a very rude surprise to realize that their man seems to be just like all the others.

Men, take note. When your partner’s dream bubble is burst in this fashion, you have to take action, or it is downhill from there.

As described above, men are trained to feel both guilty about pornography, and to accept it as the norm. They see it as a simple release mechanism, and not as cheating, betraying, or even having any real meaning at all. They are drawn to the relationality of their women, but often do not really understand it, let alone understand that pornography can damage it.

3. From a functional standpoint, here’s the real problem with pornography: It seduces a man away from emotional intimacy with his partner. This doesn’t have to be the case, but it occurs so often that I tend to assume it is happening until proven otherwise.

The seduction is one of easy avoidance. There is no relationship to take care of or nurture. One doesn’t have to live with the complaints or even the mistaken dreams of the fantasy figures. Worse still, the images are ever changing, ever titilating. Life at home with the same woman, the same old positions, and the same old timing can seem rather mundane.

The problem with pornography is that men do not learn to develop the ability to be highly stimulated by deep emotional intimacy with their one, special partner.

A successful team helps both partners learn to be intensely intimate with one another, and then intensely stimulated sexually. Pornagraphy offers the stimulation while avoiding the real reward of intimate closeness in the relationship.

So, how do such couples handle this dilemma? At their best they use it as a vehicle to move them to an ever deeper level of contact with each other. They move past blaming and misunderstanding to acceptance of the other’s gender and training. They come up with behavior that works for both of them and that they can both agree to and live with.

Ultimately, it can be a journey of emotional intimacy that ends up being one huge “turn on.”

I wish it weren’t true, but unfortunately for us all – sex, immorality, and immodesty sells. As a few greedy individuals and companies make a profit from this sleazy material, the realistic and sad result is that – thoughts are corrupted, commitments and responsibilities are discarded, selfishness and temporary gratification become more important than self control, sins and crimes are committed, addictions are developed, families are torn apart, and slowly our society’s very foundational values have disintegrated.

Keeping thoughts clean, turning away from temptation, or altogether avoiding pornography is becoming increasingly more difficult considering the fact that – the vast majority of movies, TV shows, songs, magazines, advertisements, and websites are immoral, immodest, sexual, and pornographic in nature. We are daily bombarded … and thus daily fighting a battle. It is a battle to keep our thoughts, actions, habits, and character clean and pure and chaste.

Thankfully, however, despite this fact – it is possible to conquer in this daily battle. But how? Let me suggest 10 tips that are simple in theory, and yet extremely difficult in practicality; but if applied, will literally help anyone to obtain the peace, true freedom, confidence, happiness, purity, and success that living a chaste life will inevitably bring.

1) Daily Effort: It is of utmost importance to remember that although continuous actions for good result in habits that are good, temptation and pornography will still abound … often daily. Thus, the necessity of controlling our thoughts and developing self control must be a daily effort.

2) Remove Yourself From Temptation: Unfortunately, the reality is that there is absolutely no way for us to completely remove ourselves from situations and mediums that will tempt us in regards to our chastity. Pornographic images always seem to find us, regardless of where we are and what we are doing.  However, with that said, we also can be a little more proactive to limit that temptation. Don’t visit that website, watch something else on TV, don’t go see that movie, don’t pick up the magazine, don’t enter the pop-up or advertisement, turn the channel during that commercial, etc. It’s hard, it takes discipline, and everyone else may seem to be doing it … but you must not!  For your sake and your family’s … you must not!

3) Control Your Thoughts: Do you actually realize the power of your thoughts.  Thoughts literally convert into actions. Thus, whatever it is that we entertain on the stage of our own minds, will in time become our very actions, habits, and character. Do you truly understand and believe that you literally can (and must) have complete control over your thoughts? You may not have asked or chosen to view the image, but you certainly have the choice as to whether or not to keep that image playing on the screen of your mind.

4) Remember the Consequences: Realize now that the fruits of pornography are: momentary gratification and lustful pleasure followed by immediate shame, guilt, sorrow, fear, and embarrassment. Eventually addictions form, curiosity heightens, people become past feeling, and the result – marriages end, families are torn apart, and crimes are committed only to satisfy a temporary gratification and almost impossibly avoidable addiction. (And let’s not be ignorant of the possible consequences and responsibilities that also could result … such as diseases, caring for a child or significant other, or paying child support, etc.).

5) Understand What ‘True Love’ Is: The world’s portrayal of ‘true love’ is often seen and interpreted two ways. First, ‘true love’ is ‘happily-ever-after.’ For anyone who has been married and experienced true love, they will be the first to tell you that ‘true love’ requires work, effort, change, sacrifice, compassion, and unselfishness … not just riding off into the sunset with prince charming to live in unending bliss. Secondly, ‘true love’ is most often unfortunately portrayed as ‘true lust.’ Love certainly is physical, combines attraction with affection, and is wonderful and beautiful. But ‘true love’ is far more than the physical and sexual joy such marital relationships can bring. ‘True love’ is the epitome of unselfishness. It is caring, it is thoughtfulness, it is service, it is work, it can even be trying, difficult, and hard at times. But ‘true love’ is committed, makes it work, never gives up, focuses on the positive, endures through challenges and weaknesses, and thinks of the concerns and needs of their spouse above their own.

6) Discipline the Natural Sexual Tendencies & Passions: We live in a society that demands that we discipline our physical bodies, our minds and intellects, and our social capabilities. The person who can not eat properly, keep their bodies fit, get an education, and socially interact are viewed and treated literally as either mis-fits, inferior, or lower class. Even if one wants (or does) eat unhealthily, is lazy, drops out of school, etc. – they know that they will be either ridiculed or limited by our society. On the other hand, however, our society (generally) makes no effort – in fact, quite the opposite – to require us to discipline our sexual passions and tendencies. Why is disciplining our sexual passions any different than our eating habits, intellect, or social abilities? It isn’t, and should not be! Just as we would go on a diet, work hard to exercise, or strive to obtain an education – we too should strive just as hard to discipline ourselves sexually and control and keep in balance a tendency just as (if not much more) difficult to manage as our eating, exercising, educational or social habits.

7) Idle Minds & Actions are the Seedbed for Disaster: The moment you find yourself idle either mentally or physically, you must know that this should be the first warning sign of possible danger ahead. ‘Surfing the web’ alone, or with nothing else to do; watching a movie that perhaps should not be viewed; or flipping through a magazine just out of ‘curiosity’ is the first idle step to inevitable temptation. Decide now to have integrity when alone, and make a rule to never ‘surf the web’ when you feel alone, down, frustrated, or with nothing else to do.

8) Deciding in the Moment of Temptation is Too Late: Decide right now that you will NOT enter that website, rent that movie, or watch that TV show.  Decide now what your limits are, and never cross them. Write your decision down on paper, put it in a place seen often and review it daily, and completely commit to the decision made in the moment of clarity of mind (not when you must decide in that fleeting hour of lust, selfishness, loneliness, temporary gratification, and temptation).

9) Tips for Parents: The most important tip for parents of teens or children – you must be the example. Do not expect anything of your child unless you are living it yourself. Next, set family rules (i.e. computer times, what can/can’t be watched, place the computer in high traffic places, talk about online safety, etc). And lastly, but certainly most importantly, parents must be involved in their children’s lives (in regards to friends, sexual activity, peer pressure, etc).  Start early to develop trust with children so they will come to you with questions and concerns. Make time regularly to just ‘talk.’ Don’t be ignorant, don’t expect the school system or friends to ‘teach them’ – be a real parent, proactive, and be involved with and talk to your children.

10) Absolutely No Excuses: Always remember that the media, individuals, and companies everywhere have one goal – to make money. Thus, they entice us to buy their product by luring us in with sexually exciting, pornographic, and addicting images and messages. Regardless of this fact, there is never an excuses for looking at, falling for, and becoming involved in this filth. It does not matter if you are just ‘curious’ – don’t look, don’t go into that advertisement, don’t watch that show or visit that website. And realize that the moment you hear yourself saying or thinking these things that you are headed for trouble, addictions, misery, and possible punishment:  it won’t hurt anyone, it’s my choice, everyone is doing it, I am just curious, I need to know so I am not ignorant, my friends want/force me to, etc. No! Be proactive. Be disciplined. Don’t give excuses. Just turn away and don’t get involved.

Never forget, however, that this is much more than not looking at pornography – this is about maintaining integrity, developing self-discipline, preserving our marriage or relationships, and especially ensuring that our families do not fall apart. When the temptation to look confronts us, as it constantly does, we must look away immediately! Doing so will allow us to avoid the consequences that come from participating in this selfish and evil act: a lack of confidence, guilt and shame, mental and spiritual abilities weakened, addictions formed, relationships ruined, and possibly our very families torn apart.

And perhaps therein lies the great secret as to why pornography is so destructive – those who participate and look at this filth wrongfully assume that doing such only affects them, and is only known by them. Wrong! The effects of this addiction change our very mentality and perspective, develop selfishness and lust within us, weaken foundations of trust, and will certainly – in time – destroy the very most important relationships in our lives. We must not look and get involved. For ours and our family’s sake – we must not look!

I wish it weren’t true, but unfortunately for us all – sex, immorality, and immodesty sells. As a few greedy individuals and companies make a profit from this sleazy material, the realistic and sad result is that – thoughts are corrupted, commitments and responsibilities are discarded, selfishness and temporary gratification become more important than self control, sins and crimes are committed, addictions are developed, families are torn apart, and slowly our society’s very foundational values have disintegrated.

Keeping thoughts clean, turning away from temptation, or altogether avoiding pornography is becoming increasingly more difficult considering the fact that – the vast majority of movies, TV shows, songs, magazines, advertisements, and websites are immoral, immodest, sexual, and pornographic in nature. We are daily bombarded … and thus daily fighting a battle. It is a battle to keep our thoughts, actions, habits, and character clean and pure and chaste.

Thankfully, however, despite this fact – it is possible to conquer in this daily battle. But how? Let me suggest 10 tips that are simple in theory, and yet extremely difficult in practicality; but if applied, will literally help anyone to obtain the peace, true freedom, confidence, happiness, purity, and success that living a chaste life will inevitably bring.

1) Daily Effort: It is of utmost importance to remember that although continuous actions for good result in habits that are good, temptation and pornography will still abound … often daily. Thus, the necessity of controlling our thoughts and developing self control must be a daily effort.

2) Remove Yourself From Temptation: Unfortunately, the reality is that there is absolutely no way for us to completely remove ourselves from situations and mediums that will tempt us in regards to our chastity. Pornographic images always seem to find us, regardless of where we are and what we are doing.  However, with that said, we also can be a little more proactive to limit that temptation. Don’t visit that website, watch something else on TV, don’t go see that movie, don’t pick up the magazine, don’t enter the pop-up or advertisement, turn the channel during that commercial, etc. It’s hard, it takes discipline, and everyone else may seem to be doing it … but you must not!  For your sake and your family’s … you must not!

3) Control Your Thoughts: Do you actually realize the power of your thoughts.  Thoughts literally convert into actions. Thus, whatever it is that we entertain on the stage of our own minds, will in time become our very actions, habits, and character. Do you truly understand and believe that you literally can (and must) have complete control over your thoughts? You may not have asked or chosen to view the image, but you certainly have the choice as to whether or not to keep that image playing on the screen of your mind.

4) Remember the Consequences: Realize now that the fruits of pornography are: momentary gratification and lustful pleasure followed by immediate shame, guilt, sorrow, fear, and embarrassment. Eventually addictions form, curiosity heightens, people become past feeling, and the result – marriages end, families are torn apart, and crimes are committed only to satisfy a temporary gratification and almost impossibly avoidable addiction. (And let’s not be ignorant of the possible consequences and responsibilities that also could result … such as diseases, caring for a child or significant other, or paying child support, etc.).

5) Understand What ‘True Love’ Is: The world’s portrayal of ‘true love’ is often seen and interpreted two ways. First, ‘true love’ is ‘happily-ever-after.’ For anyone who has been married and experienced true love, they will be the first to tell you that ‘true love’ requires work, effort, change, sacrifice, compassion, and unselfishness … not just riding off into the sunset with prince charming to live in unending bliss. Secondly, ‘true love’ is most often unfortunately portrayed as ‘true lust.’ Love certainly is physical, combines attraction with affection, and is wonderful and beautiful. But ‘true love’ is far more than the physical and sexual joy such marital relationships can bring. ‘True love’ is the epitome of unselfishness. It is caring, it is thoughtfulness, it is service, it is work, it can even be trying, difficult, and hard at times. But ‘true love’ is committed, makes it work, never gives up, focuses on the positive, endures through challenges and weaknesses, and thinks of the concerns and needs of their spouse above their own.

6) Discipline the Natural Sexual Tendencies & Passions: We live in a society that demands that we discipline our physical bodies, our minds and intellects, and our social capabilities. The person who can not eat properly, keep their bodies fit, get an education, and socially interact are viewed and treated literally as either mis-fits, inferior, or lower class. Even if one wants (or does) eat unhealthily, is lazy, drops out of school, etc. – they know that they will be either ridiculed or limited by our society. On the other hand, however, our society (generally) makes no effort – in fact, quite the opposite – to require us to discipline our sexual passions and tendencies. Why is disciplining our sexual passions any different than our eating habits, intellect, or social abilities? It isn’t, and should not be! Just as we would go on a diet, work hard to exercise, or strive to obtain an education – we too should strive just as hard to discipline ourselves sexually and control and keep in balance a tendency just as (if not much more) difficult to manage as our eating, exercising, educational or social habits.

7) Idle Minds & Actions are the Seedbed for Disaster: The moment you find yourself idle either mentally or physically, you must know that this should be the first warning sign of possible danger ahead. ‘Surfing the web’ alone, or with nothing else to do; watching a movie that perhaps should not be viewed; or flipping through a magazine just out of ‘curiosity’ is the first idle step to inevitable temptation. Decide now to have integrity when alone, and make a rule to never ‘surf the web’ when you feel alone, down, frustrated, or with nothing else to do.

8) Deciding in the Moment of Temptation is Too Late: Decide right now that you will NOT enter that website, rent that movie, or watch that TV show.  Decide now what your limits are, and never cross them. Write your decision down on paper, put it in a place seen often and review it daily, and completely commit to the decision made in the moment of clarity of mind (not when you must decide in that fleeting hour of lust, selfishness, loneliness, temporary gratification, and temptation).

9) Tips for Parents: The most important tip for parents of teens or children – you must be the example. Do not expect anything of your child unless you are living it yourself. Next, set family rules (i.e. computer times, what can/can’t be watched, place the computer in high traffic places, talk about online safety, etc). And lastly, but certainly most importantly, parents must be involved in their children’s lives (in regards to friends, sexual activity, peer pressure, etc).  Start early to develop trust with children so they will come to you with questions and concerns. Make time regularly to just ‘talk.’ Don’t be ignorant, don’t expect the school system or friends to ‘teach them’ – be a real parent, proactive, and be involved with and talk to your children.

10) Absolutely No Excuses: Always remember that the media, individuals, and companies everywhere have one goal – to make money. Thus, they entice us to buy their product by luring us in with sexually exciting, pornographic, and addicting images and messages. Regardless of this fact, there is never an excuses for looking at, falling for, and becoming involved in this filth. It does not matter if you are just ‘curious’ – don’t look, don’t go into that advertisement, don’t watch that show or visit that website. And realize that the moment you hear yourself saying or thinking these things that you are headed for trouble, addictions, misery, and possible punishment:  it won’t hurt anyone, it’s my choice, everyone is doing it, I am just curious, I need to know so I am not ignorant, my friends want/force me to, etc. No! Be proactive. Be disciplined. Don’t give excuses. Just turn away and don’t get involved.

Never forget, however, that this is much more than not looking at pornography – this is about maintaining integrity, developing self-discipline, preserving our marriage or relationships, and especially ensuring that our families do not fall apart. When the temptation to look confronts us, as it constantly does, we must look away immediately! Doing so will allow us to avoid the consequences that come from participating in this selfish and evil act: a lack of confidence, guilt and shame, mental and spiritual abilities weakened, addictions formed, relationships ruined, and possibly our very families torn apart.

And perhaps therein lies the great secret as to why pornography is so destructive – those who participate and look at this filth wrongfully assume that doing such only affects them, and is only known by them. Wrong! The effects of this addiction change our very mentality and perspective, develop selfishness and lust within us, weaken foundations of trust, and will certainly – in time – destroy the very most important relationships in our lives. We must not look and get involved. For ours and our family’s sake – we must not look!

Pornographic addiction is not accurately described by an occasional urge to look at one or two saucy pictures now and again. It is a more serious approach; the desire to view pornographic images and an inability to stop doing so.  Baby boomers in middle and old age might have taken little interest in such images in early life, yet display an obsession late in life that they cannot overcome.

How do you know if you are addicted to pornography?  It is a simple analysis of your own behaviour:  Are you able to make the choice to do something else, or does the urge to view pornography take precedence over other social activities?  Are you secretive about your interest in pornography?   Does the secrecy element contribute largely to the attraction?  Do you masturbate more often?  Do you deliberately introduce the subject of sex into general conversation? Does time slip away as you enter a world of pornographic fantasy?  If the answer to these questions is yes, you have a problem to overcome.

Baby boomers who have been recently widowed might turn to pornography in an attempt to deal with loneliness or isolation.  Although a person might not be ready to take the necessary steps to begin a social life again, pornography is something that is readily available in magazines and online, to pass the time and provide excitement without having to involve others.  It becomes harmful when the person is unable to interact normally as a result of a pornographic addiction.

For baby boomers who understand that they have a problem, there are a number of solutions that might be applied to eradicate their difficulties.  If the pornographic material is being viewed online, purchasing an efficient web blocker will help enormously.  Easy to install and password linked, it enables a third party to program a blocking facility that precludes the viewing of pornographic material.  Such applications are traditionally used to block certain sites for children but they may be used with equal effect to help adults.

Increasing the social activities of the addict is another way to help reduce the urge to view pornography.  By filling the hours that are usually set aside for pornographic entertainment, it is possible to reduce certain urges, especially when physical exercise is included. 

An unhealthy interest in pornography is rarely without its drawbacks and may even affect a person’s ability to perform sexually.  Baby boomers of a certain age might attribute a lack of sexual competence to progressing age when in fact the problem lies in pornographic addiction.  Elderly pornography addiction is increasing, probably due to free use of the internet and to the increased competence of the elderly in using internet tools.  

As with most addictions, half the battle lies in understanding that the addiction exists in the first place and admitting that help is needed to stop.  When seeking professional help for addiction to pornography, or for any other psychological disorder, check the credentials of your psychologist carefully.